ME & YOU: “mir/dir” OR “mich/dich”?

Posted on 06. Oct, 2010 by in Language

Very often I can realize that learners of German struggle with using the correct form of the 1st person and 2nd person personal pronouns in the singular.  Both “me” and “you” have each two translations in German. “Me” can mean either mich or mir and “you” can mean either dich or dir. The difference between these forms is their grammar case. Mir and dir are DATIVE personal pronouns and mich and dich are ACCUSATIVE personal pronouns.

Singular

1st Person

2nd Person

Dative

mir

dir

Accusative

mich

dich

Which grammar case we have to use in a sentence is determined by the verb or preposition of our phrase. Let’s have a look at some examples with very common prepositions and with a few verbs.

Prepositions

  • The prepositions mit, von, zu, and bei require the dative case.
  • The prepositions für and ohne require the accusative case.
  1. Ich gehe nur mit dir (dat.) zur Feier. – I am only going to the party with you.
  2. Ich gehe ohne dich (acc.) nicht zur Feier. – I am not going to the party without you.
  3. Das Geschenk ist von mir (dat.) – The present is from me.
  4. Das Geschenk ist für dich (acc.) – The present is for you.
  5. Ich komme zu dir. – I am coming to you(r place).
  6. Er ist bei mir. – He is with me. / He is at my place.

Verbs that take the dative

  1. antworten – to answer: Sie hat mir noch nicht geantwortet. – She has not answered me yet.
  2. helfen – to help: Ich helfe dir. – I help you.
  3. gehören – to belong: Das gehört mir. –That belongs to me.
  4. zuhören – to listen: Ich höre dir zu. – I am listening to you.

Verbs that take the accusative

  1. anrufen – to call: Ich rufe dich morgen an. – I will call you tomorrow.
  2. kennen – to know: Sie kennen mich. – They know me.
  3. verstehen – to understand: Wir verstehen dich. – We understand you.
  4. vergessen – to forget: Vergiess mich nicht. – Do not forget me.

So whenever you come across verbs and/or prepositions in connection with personal pronouns it is very useful to remember these forms well because most of the time it is the only form that exists. That is, forms like “mit dich”, “ohne dir”, “dir kennen”, “dich antworten” do NOT exist.

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About Sandra

Hello everybody! I studied English and American Studies, Communication Science, and Political Science at the University of Greifswald. Since I have been learning English as a second language myself for almost 20 years now I know how difficult it is to learn a language other than your native one. Thus, I am always willing to keep my explanations about German grammar comprehensible and short. Further, I am inclined to encourage you to speak German in every situation. Regards, Sandra

2 Responses to “ME & YOU: “mir/dir” OR “mich/dich”?”

  1. santos 25 January 2011 at 8:45 am #

    sher gut

  2. Bini 14 October 2012 at 9:11 pm #

    Ur explanation is one of the simplest and best I have found on the internet. Thank you so much. I have just begun learning German n it’s baffling!!
    Thank you again!!
    Cheers!!


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