{"id":6848,"date":"2011-12-09T10:09:02","date_gmt":"2011-12-09T15:09:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/?p=6848"},"modified":"2011-12-09T10:21:23","modified_gmt":"2011-12-09T15:21:23","slug":"chinese-love-part-seven","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/chinese-love-part-seven\/","title":{"rendered":"Chinese Love &#8211; Part Seven"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_6854\" style=\"width: 220px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft post-item__attachment\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/chinese-love-part-seven\/onechild\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-6854\" aria-label=\"Onechild\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6854\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6854 \"  alt=\"\" width=\"210\" height=\"145\" \/ src=\"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2011\/12\/onechild.jpg\"><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-6854\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&quot;Carry out family planning; implement the basic national policy.&quot;<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Now that the wedding and the <strong>honeymoon<\/strong> (\u871c\u6708 &#8211; m\u00ec yu\u00e8) are over, what&#8217;s family life like in China? Well, ever since 1976, Chinese families have lived with the <strong>One Child Policy <\/strong>(\u8ba1\u5212\u751f\u80b2\u653f\u7b56 &#8211; j\u00ec hu\u00e0 sh\u0113ng y\u00f9 zh\u00e8ng c\u00e8). It is a common misconception, however, that all Chinese are limited to only one child. In fact, there are many loopholes to this rule, and it doesn&#8217;t directly affect everyone. For example, the law is directed mainly at <strong>Han<\/strong> (\u6c49 &#8211; h\u00e0n) Chinese, and does not equally affect the countless <strong>ethnic minorities<\/strong> (\u5c11\u6570\u6c11\u65cf &#8211; sh\u01ceo sh\u00f9 m\u00edn z\u00fa) living in China. Even Han Chinese are usually permitted to have more than one child if they live in rural areas. Also, if both parents are themselves only children, they&#8217;re often allowed to have two kids. Actually, in 2007, the National Population and Family Planning Commission estimated that the policy applies to only about 36% of China\u2019s population. For city slicker families who don&#8217;t qualify for any of the loopholes, they can always pay the hefty second child fine.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_6852\" style=\"width: 213px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter post-item__attachment\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/chinese-love-part-seven\/childrengraph\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-6852\" aria-label=\"Childrengraph\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6852\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6852\"  alt=\"\" width=\"203\" height=\"231\" \/ src=\"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2011\/12\/childrengraph.gif\"><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-6852\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Plenty of people have more than one child in China.<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_6853\" style=\"width: 130px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft post-item__attachment\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/chinese-love-part-seven\/little_emperor\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-6853\" aria-label=\"Little Emperor\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6853\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6853 \"  alt=\"\" width=\"120\" height=\"179\" \/ src=\"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2011\/12\/little_emperor.jpg\"><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-6853\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Little Emperor, indeed.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>There is a nickname for this generation of city-dwelling only children &#8211; <strong>little emperors<\/strong> (\u5c0f\u7687\u5e1d &#8211; xi\u01ceo hu\u00e1ng d\u00ec). These children are the center of their families, and they are often spoiled rotten. Receiving all of the attention not only from mom and dad, but also from grandparents and other family members, these little emperors often get whatever they want, whenever they want. Also, with the economic developments of the past few decades and the fact that both parents work in most families these days, there&#8217;s more disposable income and less children to blow it on. This means more toys, more clothes, more books, and yes, more food, for these kids.<a href=\"http:\/\/money.cnn.com\/magazines\/fortune\/fortune_archive\/2004\/10\/04\/8186784\/index.htm\"> Here is an informative article<\/a> about the generation of little emperors in China.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"CNN - China&#039;s New Generation, Little Emperors\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/3LokGjrnPec?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><em>CNN piece about the growing influence, and spending power, of the little emperors.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>While these only children may get pampered quite a bit, they&#8217;re also pushed very hard to succeed, as competition for universities and good jobs will only get more and more difficult in China. It&#8217;s not uncommon for a six-year old to spend all day in school, then go to piano lessons, then swimming lessons, and then have a private English tutor. These children are pushed hard by their parents to be successful. In China, everybody wants their son to be a <strong>dragon <\/strong>(\u9f99 &#8211; l\u00f3ng), or their daughter to be a <strong>phoenix<\/strong> (\u51e4\u51f0 &#8211; f\u00e8ng hu\u00e1ng).<\/p>\n<p>In modern day China, it&#8217;s not just the children that need to be taken care of, however. These days, it&#8217;s not uncommon for a married couple to take care of both sets of grandparents, in addition to their little emperor. This is known as the &#8220;4:2:1&#8221; problem &#8211; 4 grandparents, 2 parents, and 1 child. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nejm.org\/doi\/full\/10.1056\/NEJMhpr051833\">Here is a great article<\/a> that gets into the nitty gritty details of the one-child policy and its effects.<\/p>\n<p>Well, at least the institution of marriage and the family unit are holding strong in China, aren&#8217;t they? Although an ancient Chinese proverb translates as &#8220;You are married until your hair turns white,&#8221; that isn&#8217;t quite the case these days. In fact, the <a href=\"http:\/\/articles.cnn.com\/2010-10-21\/world\/florcruz.china.divorce_1_divorce-couples-marriage?_s=PM:WORLD\">divorce rate in China has been skyrocketing<\/a> in the past few years. It is said that some 5,000 couples <strong>get divorced<\/strong> (\u79bb\u5a5a &#8211; l\u00ed h\u016bn) in China&#8230; every day. That&#8217;s not a typo. Every day. A recent law regarding divorce in China has been dubbed &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/worldnews\/asia\/afghanistan\/8857708\/Chinas-divorce-rule-dubbed-Law-that-makes-men-laugh-and-women-cry.html\">the law that makes men laugh and women cry<\/a>&#8220;, as it states that whoever paid for property is the legal owner, with full rights to it in case of divorce. The law, which is an attempt to make divorce less attractive and restore some lost values, has Chinese women quite perturbed, and rightfully so.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=O0bDlsjqC2c\">http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=O0bDlsjqC2c<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Australian news short about the new divorce law in China.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a shame so many marriages are ending in China these days, especially considering all the work that went into those weddings&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<img width=\"300\" height=\"207\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2011\/12\/onechild.jpg\" class=\"attachment-post-thumbnail size-post-thumbnail wp-post-image tmp-hide-img\" alt=\"\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" \/><p>Now that the wedding and the honeymoon (\u871c\u6708 &#8211; m\u00ec yu\u00e8) are over, what&#8217;s family life like in China? Well, ever since 1976, Chinese families have lived with the One Child Policy (\u8ba1\u5212\u751f\u80b2\u653f\u7b56 &#8211; j\u00ec hu\u00e0 sh\u0113ng y\u00f9 zh\u00e8ng c\u00e8). It is a common misconception, however, that all Chinese are limited to only one child&hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"post-item__readmore\"><a class=\"btn btn--md\" href=\"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/chinese-love-part-seven\/\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":55,"featured_media":6854,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"content-type":""},"categories":[3,1],"tags":[115708,115705,115704,115709,115706,69585,12860,69578,69586,115707,115710,69601],"class_list":["post-6848","post","type-post","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-culture","category-uncategorized","tag-china-421-problem","tag-chinese-family-planning","tag-chinese-marriage","tag-divorce","tag-ethnic-minorities","tag-little-emperors","tag-marriage","tag-one-child-policy","tag-69586","tag-115707","tag-115710","tag-69601"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6848","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/55"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6848"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6848\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6861,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6848\/revisions\/6861"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6854"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/chinese\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}