{"id":32,"date":"2008-11-21T04:06:33","date_gmt":"2008-11-21T08:06:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/french\/?p=32"},"modified":"2008-11-21T04:06:33","modified_gmt":"2008-11-21T08:06:33","slug":"on-se-tutoie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/french\/on-se-tutoie\/","title":{"rendered":"On se tutoie?"},"content":{"rendered":"

The French language is sometimes thought of as a formal language.\u00a0 Possibly one of the reasons is because of the tutoyer<\/em> and vouvoyer<\/em> thing.\u00a0 For those of you who speak French and especially those of you who have visited a French-speaking country, you probably fully understand what I’m talking about.\u00a0 The rules are not very clear, although there are some guidelines.\u00a0 In any case, my own experience is that it can be hard for non-native speakers to grasp this social language standard -not the concept, but rather consistently putting it into practice.\u00a0 Especially when first learning French, most of us are just happy to be somewhat understood and with all the searching for the right verbs and vocabulary we sometimes forget about how we are to address the person we are speaking to.\u00a0 It is easier to do in writing, because you have time to think about it.<\/p>\n

In any case, remember that tu <\/em><\/strong>and vous<\/em><\/strong> both mean the singular ‘you’ (vous<\/em> is always used for plural ‘you’).\u00a0 The tu<\/em> form is informal and is usually used when speaking with a friend, a person your age (especially when young), a family member, a colleague, a child, or even a pet…in short, someone you know pretty well or are on the same social level with.\u00a0 The vous<\/em> form is formal and is usually used when speaking with someone who is older than you, your professor, a stranger, a boss, anyone who is in a position of authority, acquaintances, or other adults that you don’t know very well.<\/p>\n

What I found interesting and was almost shocked by is that I have thirty-something French friends who actually vouvoyer<\/em> their parents!\u00a0 Now this goes along with aristocratic France and the old social idea that children should be seen and not heard, but it is still in place in some families.\u00a0 However, most French families today are on tutoyer <\/em>terms as modern French society has changed and is constantly changing which is also reflected in how and when people tutoyer <\/em>and vouvoyer<\/em>.<\/p>\n

When in doubt, use the vous<\/em> form and wait for this suggestion to be made by the person you are speaking with: On se tutoie?<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The French language is sometimes thought of as a formal language.\u00a0 Possibly one of the reasons is because of the tutoyer and vouvoyer thing.\u00a0 For those of you who speak French and especially those of you who have visited a French-speaking country, you probably fully understand what I’m talking about.\u00a0 The rules are not very…<\/p>\n

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