{"id":41,"date":"2009-06-09T07:27:59","date_gmt":"2009-06-09T12:27:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/hindi\/?p=41"},"modified":"2009-06-09T07:27:59","modified_gmt":"2009-06-09T12:27:59","slug":"hindu-wedding-part-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/hindi\/hindu-wedding-part-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Hindu Wedding Part 3"},"content":{"rendered":"

The third installment of traditional Hindu weddings involve the post wedding preparations. After celebrations come to a close, there is an emotional part of the wedding that involves the bride leaving to go to the groom’s house. This is a painful ceremony for the bride and her family. There is a special term called babul (\u092c\u093e\u092c\u0941\u0932<\/strong>) to indicate a father’s emotional\u00a0farewell for his newly wed daughter. This is also the time for the photographers to take last minute pictures of the bride with the bride’s family. It’s also a time when gifts are given to the bride to take home.<\/p>\n

Before entering the groom’s house, the bride and groom go straight to a temple. The couple prays to Lord Raama (\u0930\u093e\u092e<\/strong><\/span>) and Siitaa (\u0938\u0940\u0924\u093e<\/strong>) for a prosperous marriage. Lord Raama (\u0930\u093e\u092e<\/strong><\/span>) and Siitaa (\u0938\u0940\u0924\u093e<\/strong>) are considered the ideal Indian couple told in ancient legends. Raama (\u0930\u093e\u092e<\/strong><\/span>) is considered an honest and brave man, while Siitaa (\u0938\u0940\u0924\u093e<\/strong>) is considered a chaste and devoted wife. The bride\u00a0prays that she will\u00a0respect and obey the groom as her husband, and the groom\u00a0prays that he will be able\u00a0to provide and protect the bride to the best of his ability.<\/p>\n

Finally, the couple goes the groom’s house. The groom’s older sister or aunt sprinkles some water mixed with salt to dispel evil spirits. Then the pot that contained the water is dashed to the ground and broken to pieces. After this is done, the couple enters the house. At the entrance to the main room, the bride puts her feet unto some red poweder mixed with milk. Then the bride kicks over a bowl filled with coins and rice. This ritual symbolizes, wealth, purity, fertility and good fortune in the new couple’s home. After this, the bride is acquainted with the members of the groom’s family.<\/p>\n

Indian people take marriage seriously. There is a low divorce rate, especially when you compare it with the divorce rate in America. Being marriage and having a family is considered a goal that every devot Hindu should aspire to. It’s almost like there’s a social obligation to get married and have children. Marriages can be arranged, but there are also love marriages as well. Sometimes the wife will live with her husband’s family. This is an old tradition that goes way back in time. Some modern couples live alone, without their parents. Either way, Indian marriages are considered sacred, and there can be a stigma against people who get divorced.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The third installment of traditional Hindu weddings involve the post wedding preparations. After celebrations come to a close, there is an emotional part of the wedding that involves the bride leaving to go to the groom’s house. This is a painful ceremony for the bride and her family. There is a special term called babul…<\/p>\n

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