{"id":8,"date":"2008-09-02T00:52:04","date_gmt":"2008-09-02T04:52:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/italian\/?p=6"},"modified":"2008-09-02T00:52:04","modified_gmt":"2008-09-02T04:52:04","slug":"lei-who-in-the-world-is-she","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/italian\/lei-who-in-the-world-is-she\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Lei&#8221; &#8211; who in the world is she?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I hope I lured you in with the post about Venice. Now it is time to discuss some grammar.<\/p>\n<p>I know not everybody loves it, but it is, of course, impossible to totally avoid grammar in a language blog. However, I do not want to explain things that no one cares for. So I would appreciate any requests for specific topics you would like me to cover.<\/p>\n<p>What I am discussing in today&#8217;s post was always confusing for me. Many languages distinguish between formal and informal address. The formal form might be more or less difficult to master depending on one&#8217;s native language. I don&#8217;t speak much Spanish but I can guess it is pretty easy to understand the Italian formal, if your native language is Spanish. For me, on the other hand, being polite in Italian wasn&#8217;t so easy.<\/p>\n<p>Italian uses &#8220;<em><strong>Lei<\/strong><\/em>&#8221; as the formal form. &#8220;<em><strong>Lei<\/strong><\/em>&#8221; means &#8220;she&#8221;. The only difference between the two is the capital letter in the formal. I used it myself with not too much difficulty, but it took me forever to get used to the fact that when someone was talking about some woman, they were actually talking to me.<\/p>\n<p>My advice is to try to separate the two in your mind. Just forget that &#8220;<strong>lei<\/strong>&#8221; actually means &#8220;she&#8221;. Treat &#8220;<em><strong>Lei<\/strong><\/em>&#8221; conjugations as unique. At least that made it a little bit easier for me. Before you know it, when someone refers to you as &#8220;her&#8221;, you would know just what to do.<\/p>\n<p>And another piece of advice. Even if it is difficult, keep using &#8220;<em><strong>Lei<\/strong><\/em>&#8220;, don&#8217;t switch to &#8220;<em><strong>tu<\/strong><\/em>&#8221; thinking that no one would notice. It is always better to be extra polite than rude, and belive me people will appreciate the fact that you are trying.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I hope I lured you in with the post about Venice. Now it is time to discuss some grammar. I know not everybody loves it, but it is, of course, impossible to totally avoid grammar in a language blog. However, I do not want to explain things that no one cares for. So I would&hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"post-item__readmore\"><a class=\"btn btn--md\" href=\"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/italian\/lei-who-in-the-world-is-she\/\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"content-type":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8","post","type-post","status-publish","hentry","category-grammar"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/italian\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/italian\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/italian\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/italian\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/italian\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/italian\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/italian\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/italian\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/italian\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}