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We are continuing from last week’s post<\/a> on why some Russians will seemingly give you the cold shoulder and won’t answer you in Russian. We looked at\u00a0how certain pronunciation gaffes can obscure understanding. There are also social and interpersonal reasons for the person’s reluctance to respond to you in Russian.<\/p>\n As many have pointed out, sometimes the person you are talking to is so eager to practice their English<\/a> (French, German, Spanish, Japanese…) with you that they would rather speak that language. Part of it could be a status\/belonging sign — “See, I speak the language of the expats, so I’m hip and I belong with them.”<\/p>\n However, more likely, you are one of the few foreigners they will meet over their lifetime, especially outside the capital cities (\u0441\u0442\u043e\u043b\u0438\u0301\u0446\u044b) of Moscow and St. Petersburg. The number of\u00a0foreign visitors has gone down<\/a> in the last couple of years. It is both an exotic event and a potentially one-off opportunity to talk to a real, living native speaker of the language they are learning!<\/p>\n The takeaway: Try to relate to their feelings by thinking about your own desire to practice Russian. A mutually beneficial way to communicate in both your and their language is to participate in a language exchange<\/a>, or tandem<\/a>.<\/p>\n Your average Russian may be surprised to hear you speak Russian. Don’t take this personally — they don’t think you are stupid or mocking their language. They have likely never heard a person from your country be fluent in Russian.<\/p>\n Perhaps they think you just learned a couple words, so when you give them your enthusiastic “\u041f\u0440\u0438\u0432\u0435\u0301\u0442!” they may give you a short friendly response, giggle (\u0445\u0438\u0445\u0438\u0301\u043a\u0430\u044e\u0442) awkwardly, and switch back to English (\u043f\u0435\u0440\u0435\u0445\u043e\u0301\u0434\u044f\u0442 \u043d\u0430 \u0430\u043d\u0433\u043b\u0438\u0301\u0439\u0441\u043a\u0438\u0439).<\/p>\n The takeaway: Russians don’t switch back to English because they think your Russian is bad — they probably switch to English because every other foreigner they’ve met didn’t speak Russian. It’s not hard to convince them otherwise (\u0443\u0431\u0435\u0434\u0438\u0301\u0442\u044c \u0438\u0445 \u0432 \u043e\u0431\u0440\u0430\u0301\u0442\u043d\u043e\u043c), though. Even something as basic as “\u042f \u043d\u0435\u043c\u043d\u043e\u0301\u0433\u043e \u0433\u043e\u0432\u043e\u0440\u044e\u0301 \u043f\u043e-\u0440\u0443\u0301\u0441\u0441\u043a\u0438” or “\u042f \u0443\u0447\u0438\u0301\u043b \u0440\u0443\u0301\u0441\u0441\u043a\u0438\u0439 \u044f\u0437\u044b\u0301\u043a \u0432 \u0443\u043d\u0438\u0432\u0435\u0440\u0441\u0438\u0442\u0435\u0301\u0442\u0435” will make you fluent in their eyes because it’s beyond what they’ve ever heard from a non-Russian.<\/p>\n If you live outside of Russia, perhaps you run into Russians at social functions. It’s natural you may try to speak to them in their language. Have you ever been in this situation only to have them awkwardly answer in English? Why would they snub you like that? Do they think your Russian is not good enough?<\/p>\n From what I’ve seen, sometimes speakers of Russian are shy about being singled out as such at an event where non-Russian speakers are present. They don’t want to be speaking a language most people around them don’t understand (I am talking about Russians living abroad, not about the tourist couple you saw in Turkey who had no qualms speaking Russian among people who couldn’t understand it). Moreover, speaking any foreign language in front of others often turns into a party trick (“Say something in Russian!”), and the person may not feel like being\u00a0the entertainment for the night.<\/p>\n The takeaway: Try talking\u00a0to that person in a more private conversation, when no non-speakers of Russian are present. Language meetups<\/a> are also a good idea.<\/p>\n What has your experience been like when speaking to Russian? Were they willing to talk Russian?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" We are continuing from last week’s post on why some Russians will seemingly give you the cold shoulder and won’t answer you in Russian. We looked at\u00a0how certain pronunciation gaffes can obscure understanding. There are also social and interpersonal reasons for the person’s reluctance to respond to you in Russian. Hungry for Practice As…<\/p>\nHungry for Practice<\/h2>\n
Don’t Expect You To Know\u00a0Russian<\/h2>\n
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