{"id":1593,"date":"2013-02-18T06:39:16","date_gmt":"2013-02-18T06:39:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/thai\/?p=1593"},"modified":"2014-08-27T15:03:56","modified_gmt":"2014-08-27T15:03:56","slug":"thai-valentines-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.transparent.com\/thai\/thai-valentines-part-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Thai Valentines, part 1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;\">Valentine\u2019s Day is a western holiday that has penetrated the cultures of countries around the world, Thailand being no exception. And with each year this encroachment of holiday love becomes more pronounced. But as with all good things there is always a negative side \u2013 Valentine\u2019s Day in Thailand comes with a statistical spike in unwanted pregnancies. The old-timers then rant on about how in their day society wasn\u2019t falling apart. But I digress . . .<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Anyway, Valentines in Thailand is mostly just like it is in the US, for established relationships. Buy some flowers, take your girl out for dinner, etc. But, the concept of dating is different here in Thailand. In western culture it\u2019s just you and her\/him. In Thai culture the girl invites her friends to come along. Sometimes just her best friend. Sometimes all the friends in her neighborhood \u2013 I kid you not.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;\">Before you freak out, let me explain the Thai way of thinking. First, having multiple people is a Thai way to break the ice on a date. It\u2019s a bit like hanging out to see if you get along as friends before becoming more than just friends. Plus, people are more likely to act themselves if they are around their friends. Next, as Thais like to spread rumors, it could make her look like a \u2018bad girl\u2019 if she is seen spending alone time with some unknown guy. If her friends meet (interview?) you and decide that you are a good person, you\u2019d get to spend alone time with her in the future. \u00a0=)<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I personally think dates like this are more fun, and Thais do too. And since the girl usually only brings one close friend with her, consider it a date with two ladies at once.\u00a0 =P<span style=\"font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Enough of cultural relationship advice . . . it\u2019s now time for me to teach you the <em>language of love<\/em>, oohhh yeaaaaa.<span style=\"font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Excited yet? You should be, because this is where you have love at first site with a long vocabulary list. And to keep the romantic flame burning, in my next post I\u2019ll show you how to smooth talk with these words.<span style=\"font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<table border=\"1\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\n<p align=\"center\"><strong>English<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\n<p align=\"center\"><strong>Karaoke<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\n<p align=\"center\"><strong>Thai<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Valentine\u2019s Day<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Wan1 haeng2 kwaam1 rak4<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e27\u0e31\u0e19\u0e41\u0e2b\u0e48\u0e07\u0e04\u0e27\u0e32\u0e21\u0e23\u0e31\u0e01<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Love<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Rak4<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e23\u0e31\u0e01<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Heart<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Hua5 jai1<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e2b\u0e31\u0e27\u0e43\u0e08<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Girlfriend\/boyfriend<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Faen1<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e41\u0e1f\u0e19<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Wife<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Pan1ra4yaa1<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e20\u0e23\u0e23\u0e22\u0e32<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Wife (informal\/rude)<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Mia1<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e40\u0e21\u0e35\u0e22<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Husband<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Saa5mee1<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e2a\u0e32\u0e21\u0e35<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Husband (informal\/rude)<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Pua5<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e1c\u0e31\u0e27<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Flirt\/woo<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Jeeb2<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e08\u0e35\u0e1a<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Red<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Daeng1<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e41\u0e14\u0e07<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Flower<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Dawk2mai4<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e14\u0e2d\u0e01\u0e44\u0e21\u0e49<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Candy<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Ka2nom5<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e02\u0e19\u0e21<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Chocolate<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Choc4go1laet4<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e0a\u0e47\u0e2d\u0e01\u0e42\u0e01\u0e41\u0e25\u0e47\u0e15<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Kiss<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Juub2<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e08\u0e39\u0e1b<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Hug<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Gaawd2<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e01\u0e2d\u0e14<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Pretty<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Suay5<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e2a\u0e27\u0e22<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Beautiful<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Ngaam1<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e07\u0e32\u0e21<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Cute<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Naa3rak4<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">\u0e19\u0e48\u0e32\u0e23\u0e31\u0e01<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Handsome<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" width=\"245\">Law2<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" 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