This week, my students are trying to write their names in Katakana. As I was helping one student write his name, I asked him “have you thought about your name – how it sounds before?” He laughed as he had never thought about it. What Japanese native speakers hear is very different from what non-native speakers hear.
Take my name for example (例えば). My name is Eriko. Simple to pronounce (発音する). BUT… unintentionally, I was given a new name by friendly strangers. When I meet a stranger, I introduce myself, “my name is Eriko.” The stranger usually says “Oh, Erika.” I said “It’s Eriko. E-R-I-K-O. With O.” “Oh, OK. Erika.” After about 2nd try, I usually give up (あきらめる).
This happens all the time in Japan, too. I was stunned to hear a Japanese news anchor say, “Kurt Coburn of Nirvana.” What? She meant “Kurt Cobain?” The anchor was not the only one. Everyone on TV, except for those who host music programs, says Kurt Coburn. Where did the R sound come from? koʊbərn vs kəʊˈbeɪn.
I had a theory on this. There was a popular actor named James Coburn in the 70s. So maybe somebody who remembered the actor unintentionally (無意識に) called Kurt Cobain as Coburn as the names looked like each other and the name Coburn was more familiar.
There is also the opposite of the Kurt Cobain case. Uma Thurman, an American actress, is called Yuma in Japan. Her name, Uma, came from dbu ma chen po, a Tibetian Buddhism idea according to Wiki, and her name is pronounced as /umə/. Why is she called Yuma only in Japan?
Again, I have a theory on this. Uma in Japanese is a horse. So someone decided to use Yuma instead of her real name. But can someone change your name from Uma to Yuma? I would have been so insulted (侮辱する).
Finally, the most enjoyable name change in Japan goes to Matthew McConoughey. Japanese pronounce his last name as McConoughee. I have no idea why. But you cannot help but (〜しないではいられない) get some chuckles out of American friends when they hear it.
Your name is your identity (アイデンティティ). Well, that was what I thought! It is quite OK for you to insist on your foreign friends and acquaintances to call you in the right name. But some names are difficult to pronounce such as Ryosuke or Arlyn. So relax and learn to enjoy your new name on the Starbucks cup as many people do. It is regarded as a special “service” in Japanese Starbucks. I cannot be responsible for (責任ある、責任を取る) what your name will become.